Have you seen the packaging on adult diapers? First off, they're called "incontinence underwear." And I guess that makes sense when you think about it; God knows there have probably been a couple of unfortunate Google searches redirecting to Craigslist “looking for” postings, if you get my drift.
I am so sorry for all that you and you mom are going through. Aging is hard enough and dementia is a bitch. It's especially hard when bodily functions start to go. Dementia care in this country is beyond cruddy. I wish I could wave a magic wand make at least some part of it better.
I'm sorry for all you have to go through with your parents. Aging isn't easy, for the elderly or those of us who have to deal with it. *hug*
I am so sorry for all that you and you mom are going through. Aging is hard enough and dementia is a bitch. It's especially hard when bodily functions start to go. Dementia care in this country is beyond cruddy. I wish I could wave a magic wand make at least some part of it better.